Realm 1:
You like a really cute guy, like Channing Tatum status. You chase after him and try so hard for him to like you and he wants nothing to do with you but be friends.
Realm 2:
You like a really cute guy, like Ryan Gossling status. He starts to show interest in you and you're not opposed. You start to text, hangout, cuddle, etc. You may even start to date a little. Then, he totally screws you over for a tall, skinny, blonde.
Realm 3:
You try to give the nice guy a chance. You know you should like him, but you aren't really that attracted to him. You start to hang out to see if it will work. He starts to fall for you and you want nothing to do with him but be his best friend.
Realm 4:
You show interest in a decently cute guy, but he's still not up to that Dave Franco status you prefer. You decide to give it a try, since nice guys are nice and you want to be treated right for once. He starts to like you because its inevitable, you're hot, and you don't like him, AT ALL. He really starts to like you and you are literally grossed out at the thought of kissing him. You feel bad, but its the ugly truth.
Realm 5:
You just want to hook up with someone because you've been a beached whale for a while and the guy falls totally in love with you and wants to be your boyfriend after 2 hours of knowing you and you just wanted to make out.
Its a rough life man. Dating doesn't get any easier. Especially at BYU. It has put this thought in your head that if you don't graduate married you're doomed for life. When in fact that is totally false, it is kind of annoying to not date anyone. Everyone is happier when they have love.
I find myself in Realm 4 a lot. I don't mean to be a brat, but I find myself being one a lot. I don't know if its because once i have them it's not a game anymore or what, but i always find myself stop liking guys once they start to like me. I know its wrong but it happens. But you honestly can't make it work with someone who you are not attracted to: it just wont work!
One day, maybe one day I will find that guy who is both attractive and nice. But right now, it seems like you cant have both. Ya cant win em all as my good friend Brian Barzee says. But my advice to you and myself right now at this point in life is this:
- Dont be too picky but dont settle.
- Dont think too hard.
- Dont be a brat but dont lead guys on.
- If a guy doesnt like you, screw em ( not literally)
- HAVE FUN!
<3 Cassie
